Wednesday, 28 October 2009

I made a trip down to a certain government department last evening. It was my 2nd visit after so many years and I am apalled by their level of efficiency. I shan't go into details since I am not familiar with their procedures. However, both visits resulted in the same conclusion. Either their computer system is super duper slow or they just have very bad command of english. My short stay there reminded me of the earlier HK dramas whereby the citizens always vent their frustrations at the slow and inefficient civil servants with the criticism that the civil servants' wages are from taxpayers. I so agree with it!!! Sometimes, I wonder... If everyone works efficiently, that will reduce all waiting and frustrations.
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Anyway, I have been following the below drama 'Moonlight Resonance' diligently on a nightly basis on CH55. Initially, I didn't quite like the drama cause Sa Yi gets on my nerves with her non-stop ramblings. Slowly, I am a little hooked to the drama. I am intrigued by the creativity of the scripwriter and the numerous twists in a single episode.
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Darl commented women is the cause of all the troubles. To a certain extent, I agree with him. Due to the different brain structures in both men and women, women will almost always be the one to start a fight/ quarrel. I quote from the book which I am currently reading. 1. The woman is usually the one who brings up "issues". 2. She usually also presents an analysis of the problem. 3. She may also suggests solutions to the problems. The inherent nature of women probably causes the whatever conflicts in a family. Maybe I should not use the word 'cause' but rather 'discover' or 'illuminates'. Men by nature behaves more like a ostrich. More often than not, they see and hear the problem but they choose the easy way out by not seeing and hearing and pretending that everything is fine tll it explodes. Even when the issue gets out of hand, men generally reacts slower. To us, it may seem that they do not care but most of the times, they do not react as quickly as we like them to cause they are still digesting the issue. Haha. In short, men are just slower creatures. Hahahahahahahaha. :D
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2 comments:

D said...

ooh... insightful! which book is that?

lala said...

"Yup. Nope. Maybe." A woman's guide to getting more out of the language of men. I can lend it to you when you are back.